Preparation:
· Bring them to their new classroom to meet their teacher and see where they will be attending. Allow them time to get to know their teacher, play and feel comfortable in the new environment.
· Talk to them in advance. Tell them how many more days leading up until school begins. Discuss activities you think they will enjoy, such as playing with other children, going outside, reading books, playing with cars…etc.
· Honestly communicate with them concerning your individual situation.
Example: “Dad is going to drop to you off, I will only be able to stay for a few minutes and then after dad goes to school he is going to come and pick you up.“
· Speak positively. Let them know you believe they can be a big boy or girl while at school and that you know they can be happy and have GREAT day!
First day of school:
· Come a few minutes early so you can spend time with your child in the classroom before you have to leave.
· Give them a timed warning. Example: “Mom can stay and play with you for 5 minutes and then I have to go to class or work.”
· Always let a teacher know when you want them to step in as you are about to leave.
· Say GOODBYE to your child. Give them a hug; tell them you love them, you are leaving and that you will be back to pick them up after lunch or nap.
· When you leave DO NOT come back into the classroom if you see or hear your child is sad. This will reinforce their behavior that I “if I cry my guardian will come back and get me right away.”
· Give the Head Teacher and student teachers a chance to console your child, distract them and build trust relationships with your child.
· If your child has a blanket or soft toy that comforts them feel free to let them bring it to hold when you leave.
Post Pick up:
· Communicate with your child that mom and dad ALWAYS come back to get them. Tell them you are proud of them and inquire about their day at school.
Common mistakes parents make: List of DON’TS!!!!
· Don’t EVER speak negatively about your child to a teacher if they are present. Example: “This is Susie’s first time away from me and I know she is going to have the hardest time.” Whether they look like it or not children ARE listening and they hear EVERYTHING you say about them. (Be positive!)
· Try not to be late or rushed so you have to quickly drop them off and run to your next destination.
· Never leave without saying goodbye. Children WILL notice that you have snuck out of the classroom.
· Do not stay longer than 10 minutes leading up to your goodbye. This only increases their anxiety of “when is mom or dad going to leave???”
· Do NOT keep coming in and out of the classroom to check on your child. This confuses children and delays the time it takes for a teacher to comfort them. (It is best to call the classroom and speak with a teacher to inquire of your child’s progress.)
Toddlers and preschool aged children require routine and consistency in their life. Whatever your game plan is make it as consistent as possible each and every day.
Every child is unique and special. Some children will adapt quickly to a new school environment very easily while others it could take up to a few weeks to feel safe and secure.
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